Every woman has been blessed by the creator the honor of continuing the human race by giving the reward of being able to bear a child. Giving birth with your own flesh and blood must be the most gratifying reward for every woman. To be able to see your own offspring welcome the world gives you the emotion of doing everything just to give what the baby needs to feel that the baby is most welcomed to the real world. Initial reactions of over protectiveness can sometimes rule you because of too much love and care for your child. There is nothing more wonderful than being able to hear your child recognize you as the parent and to watch your child grow from being a baby to a fully matured person that follows the values and morals you taught when they were still young and looking for guidance and protection from the vindictive world.
However, sometimes because of certain reasons a mother can give birth to child with a disability or chronic infirmity. There are inborn disabilities or infirmities that are caused by genetics or negligence on the mother’s part when the baby is still on the development stage inside the tummy. Child disabilities are sometimes a result of genetic issues like getting an abnormal count of genes when they were still on the embryonic stage.
One cause could also be blamed on mothers who commits things or acts that is prohibited for pregnant women like taking drugs, cigarette smoking and alcohol intakes for example. Nevertheless it does not matter anymore what caused for a child to have disabilities. It is still an obligation for parents to give the entire child’s need like any other normal children. Giving birth to a child with disabilities requires parents to give their extra effort for it is necessary not only because of morale reasons but also for the reason that child with disabilities tend to be more clingy and needy.
This situation is hard not only for parents but also with the other siblings especially if a child with disability is not the only child in the family. It is not only the parent that needs to adjust but as well as the other siblings. This would require a large portion of a family to adjust with attention, time, effort and financial issues. Psychological support is also a crucial part especially for siblings to show her/his brother/sister the same care and love they give to their other normal siblings.
It is important for all members of the family to show the disable child that he/she is still part of the family amidst the disabilities. Never show any acts of negligence because medical studies show that child with disabilities can distinguish positive and negative reactions from other family members. If ever the other siblings acts rude towards the disabled child this might affect the over all modification and progress of the child’s self-esteem. Hence, this is really a big challenge for parents to be able to adjust to the situation and make the normal children understand the situation while being able to balance the needs for their siblings without being biased for both sides.